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Why Fit In?

I spent a great deal of my life trying to fit in, better yet actually trying to hide hoping that no one would notice me or see what I look like.  After years of self-discovery and growth, I’ve come to realize that I wasn’t made to look like the next lady, to take the same path to […]

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Onward & Upward

Hey there Lovelies!!! I can’t front with you all; I’ve had a pretty sucky day (Monday). I’m honestly, at a pretty rough crossroad in my life. While I’m in a bit of funk right now, I realize that my life can only move in a positive direction…onward and upward! I find peace in that :-). […]

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Friendly Force

My friends are pushers.  I say, “I can’t.”  They say, “You can, and you will.”  From making me take outfit pictures for this blog, to telling me to act on opportunities that they come across, they continuously push me in the right direction.  As a shy introvert, God knew I would need people to help push me […]

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Dear Blogger

Dear blogger, you are AWESOME.  Whether you have 5 readers, or 10 million, you ROCK.  The blogosphere is saturated.  I’d be lying if I said it wasn’t, but the thing that makes your blog special, is YOU.  Even when there are know comments, please know that someone, somewhere, took a peek at what you wrote today, […]

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Just Breathe

Sometimes life can get overwhelming, with so many things going on, and we just keep pushing ourselves, trying to juggle it all.  However, sometimes we just need to take a breather to regroup and refresh.  So, I’m taking a mini blog break.  If you are struggling to manage its all, I encourage you to take […]

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Ladylike Deception

We look at television, in magazines, and at people in our communities, and assume that what we see is real.  We assume that Jay-Z and Beyonce have the perfect marriage (I am totally guilty of this one, lol); we role with the assumption that the bodies displayed in magazines are real; we assume that because […]