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Been At It

Lovelies, do you ever notice a trend, and you find yourself being like, “I been wearing that.” lol?  I must admit that I have these thoughts often, but recently, I’ve been having these thoughts about culottes.  They seem to be all of the rage these days. I’m noticing them, more than ever, in trend reports and […]

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Blogger Decisions

Lovelies, I have a CONFESSION to make…I’m seriously considering shutting down this blog.  I sent out a tweet a couple of weeks ago, thinking no one would see, announcing this, but of course Tasha, of Imperfect Concepts spotted it and sent me a text, lol.  There have been a few times where I’ve considered closing […]

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Friendly Force

My friends are pushers.  I say, “I can’t.”  They say, “You can, and you will.”  From making me take outfit pictures for this blog, to telling me to act on opportunities that they come across, they continuously push me in the right direction.  As a shy introvert, God knew I would need people to help push me […]

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Comfort Zone

Being comfortable is easy.  It feels good, brings a smile to our faces, and often comes with routine, but 9 times out of 10, comfortable isn’t going to turn our dreams into realities.  Sometimes, we have  to take a step of faith, and sometimes life pushes us into discomfort.  I’m at a point in my […]

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Ladylike Deception

We look at television, in magazines, and at people in our communities, and assume that what we see is real.  We assume that Jay-Z and Beyonce have the perfect marriage (I am totally guilty of this one, lol); we role with the assumption that the bodies displayed in magazines are real; we assume that because […]

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Life Blowing

Lovelies, life is trying to blow me each and every way right now, and I am trying very hard to keep my eye on the prize, walking against the wind towards my dreams.  Is this something you can relate to?  When this happens, we must hunker down, holding on to everything to everything good, letting […]